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Now, take someone who is genetically more prone to collect fat around their abdomen, and they have a body type that is more plump and husky…not well suited to quickly building and maintaining muscle. In fact, if you’ve been to Asia, almost all the food is fried! And who has the time to create crazy egg white, honey-infused, lemon-lime face masks every day, and then sit with it on for over an hour?
Yet if that person followed a healthy routine and exercised, they would have a healthy, toned body, while the other person who sat around all day would not…even though that person had better genetics in that area. Even when I did follow the directions to a T, I never saw any noticeable results.
I was stuck at home with two shelves full of moisturizers, skin creams, face masks, peels, and cleansing products, and my skin only seemed to keep getting more worn and wrinkly. I had dark circles under my eyes that never seemed to go away, even though I ate a healthy diet and got plenty of sleep (that’s what you’re supposed to do, right? My skin seemed saggy and grey and , I used younger pictures of myself and lied about my age in my online dating profile, hoping it would improve my chances of meeting someone new. I thought that if they just met me in person, we might feel a connection…
Yet…as soon as I met these guys, they always seemed to recognize right away that I had lied…and nobody appreciates a liar.
That’s why a man will always feel more naturally attracted to a woman who appears younger. Even if he doesn’t act on it – and a good man won’t – he can’t help to be drawn to youth like a magnet.
Now, as a strong woman with a successful career, I’ve never let a man define me. But I’d be lying to myself and to you if I said I didn’t yearn for the companionship that a healthy relationship brings, especially after years of marriage.
But, the dating world for a woman my age is cut-throat.Yet I felt as worthless as a piece of trash discarded on the side of the highway!It was as if I had simply lost my value…like nobody wanted me because I was Maybe you can relate to my story or maybe you’re married and in a loving relationship, but your husband doesn’t show you the same amount of attention anymore... You see, as a woman, I used to look at a man’s desire to be with a girl half his age as just immaturity, or some kind of “mid-life crisis.” To me it seemed almost that a man in his 40s, 50s or older would go for a girl that was old enough to be his daughter. For example, even though that handsome college student at the coffee shop gave me a compliment, I didn’t stick around and let the flirtation go any further… Then he motioned to his friend, who was behind him working the espresso machine... The lack of confidence, the feeling of not being wanted. Yet what I’ve found is that none of that matters when your skin looks radiant and glowing. He paused for a moment, fixing his eyes on me, carefully scanning me from head to toe as if I was a juicy red tomato in the produce isle... As I walked out with my coffee into a glorious summer morning, I could feel their eyes following me… But am I really that bad of a person for wanting to turn heads like I used to? Maybe I am, but if you’re anything like me and you’ve been plagued by that “invisible” feeling, then you know how it feels… And I’m not afraid to admit that I’m a little on the plump side.