Tips about boys and dating
When you open the discussion with your teen about relationships and sexuality, consider using gender-inclusive language that remains neutral to sexual orientation.
For example, you might say something like, “Are you interested in finding a boyfriend or girlfriend?
It is important to set expectations and boundaries you have now regarding your teen dating rather than defining them through confrontation later.
Let your teen know any rules you may have, such as curfews, restrictions on who or how they date, who will pay for dates, and any other stipulations you might have.
Distinguishing between infatuation and love can be difficult for many adults; imagine how complicated it can be for a teenager who is experiencing many new feelings for the first time.
Take a moment to explain to your teen that attraction and desire are physiological responses that can occur separately from emotions.
Make sure he or she understands that infatuation is not the same as love.
” rather than automatically assuming your teen has a preference for the opposite sex.
Deliver this language with genuine openness and love.