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So, until a new equilibrium is reached in these evolving social norms, men have difficult choices to make.
Essentially, they seem to have to either appease social norms (for relationships and acceptance) or evolved standards of attractiveness (and get sexual fulfillment).
With this strategy, men are often able to fulfill their short-term sexual needs—especially within the modern, socially-sanctioned climate of "hook-ups" and causal encounters.
In fact, many of these men are former virgins and "nice guys" who previously could not get their physical needs addressed.
Men successful with this strategy attempt to find an honest and faithful partner, who respects their needs, and is grateful for their contributions (for more, see here, here, and here).
Again though, men pursuing this strategy also report the need to stay vigilant for their partner's waning attraction, signs of cheating, and being taken for granted (much as women in "traditional" relationships do).
Socially, they are expected to be "compliant" (i.e. However, they are also urged by women's sexual interest to maintain an "attractive personality" (i.e. Unfortunately, men sometimes report that attempting to balance these notions does not result in satisfaction, happiness, or women's appreciation and respect.
The men that I speak with (and who commented on my last post) lament about being in a "no win situation" in modern dating.
These are the guys who are often labeled "players", "macks", and "pick-up artists".With divorce a very real (and punishing) possibility, these men may also choose to think carefully before committing.3) Holding High Standards - yet other men continue to hold high standards for both themselves and their partners.They invest in their own attractiveness, value, and success.However, these men are often punished by being socially labeled as "jerks", "players", or even "creeps", unfit for socially-defined relationships.Furthermore, their tactics are often designated as "sexist" (Hall & Canterberry, 2011).