35 and older dating
Speaking of confidence, a grown-up man isn’t afraid to go after what he wants.If this guy can’t manage to get a drink at a crowded bar or he’s too timid to tell you he likes a finger up his ass during sex, he’s never going to amount to anything.If he can’t send you a simple text just to let you know he’s not dead or in jail, odds are he’s fucking with your head.When you ask a guy where he wants to go for dinner and he says something like, “I don’t care,” or “Wherever you want,” it’s usually true.
In today’s world, there are very few reasons to be completely unreachable for any length of time. As long as it’s not interfering with his life, let the guy play.No, I’m talking about the kind of games when he’s fucking with your mind. He has no interest in your hopes and dreams unless they revolve around him; he only cares that his needs are being met.Otherwise it’s just a distraction that temporarily tables the problem and allows it to get worse. I’m talking about learning new skills, becoming more invested in current affairs, reading more… If he thought he was finished gaining any kind of knowledge when he graduated from school, he’s still got a lot to learn.Knowing how to manipulate people into doing what you want is actually a pretty good skill to have. Sometimes a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do, and that isn’t always pretty.