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I think, apart from our own company – nothing in our lives really lasts forever.

But when we’re looking for a partner and not succeeding, and we feel we’ve been single for way too long (Months? – definition of “a long time” can be very subjective), that horrible thought almost inevitably creeps in: ‘Will I ever find someone? ’ I could bet you right here right now for any amount – you won’t stay single forever, unless you really want to. If you are actively looking, it will very rarely be much longer. I’ve been there – there were periods of my singleness which – of course – never lasted longer than those few years, but there and then they sure seemed like they will go just go on and on… Desperation takes over easily when you feel you’re trying so hard and nothing is happening.

The man is, at the very least, trying very intently to cheat on you, and has quite possibly already cheated on you.

I was smiling and laughing as I said it, and from our previous exchanges I had no reason to believe he might be insulted by such a comment.

It’s been almost a week since I saw him and made that joke, and he’s definitely been avoiding me.

And if you could step away from the fear, you would know, deep down – it’s very unlikely you’ll stay alone for the next 10 or 60 years of your life. I know it’s hard to listen to the voice of reason when emotions are shouting louder. I can’t tell you when you’ll meet your next long-term partner – but I can give you a few tips to manage that fear better. Most likely A LOT happened in your life in 2 years, let alone 10. Another reality check: if you see a lot of people around you settling down, that doesn’t mean everyone but you is hooking up, you are just noticing those people more.

I do believe it’s the anxiety of not knowing “how long” that creates most of the singleness-misery, not the actual wait itself. Jobs, schools, places, friends, partners – all change. So if all those things happened then, why wouldn’t they happen in the next 10 years of your life? Try looking for single people instead – in real life, in media, anywhere you can spot them. Do that for at least few weeks, or until you have enough evidence that the world is not comprised only of couples. Yes, people in couples are not necessarily happier than you either. for another post.) Step two – change your life: put the rest of your life under control, as much as you can. And you’re not putting your life on hold while he or she arrives.

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